Wrong? Not remotely. I guess I don't see how it is harder for one person over another to form a group. Typical human characteristics that aid in real life social situations (charisma, confidence etc) are null in video games where you're acting behind an online avatar. Effort is the only thing that matters, and anyone can have that. The larger point is that regardless if some players are better at grouping than others, the numerous detriments to the community that x-realm brings outweigh the benefits imo.